Questions

When you meet someone the first thing you do is eye contact and then to doesn’t make it more awkward you start a conversation. Most people assume it as a big task but starting a conversation is not a big thing instead making it last longer is the main thing.Do you know which kind of questions increase the chance of a long conversation?? Even if yes, this article brought you the unique Conversation Starters For Couples,  you have never heard or asked before other than “how are you or where are you”. Always remember that whenever you start any conversation look into that person’s eyes and allow them to speak even if you think your question was not really answerable, be quiet and listen carefully to what your partner says. If he/she is feeling hesitated first make them feel normal to comfort him/her. If they stop in the middle of answering your questions it means that they are thinking deeply about it.

Conversation Starters For Couples

• What is something we should enjoy more because it won’t be around for long?

• When are you the most “you”?

• How much space / alone time should people in a relationship give each other?

• Do you make New Year resolutions? If yes, how many did you accomplish?

• What is the best gift you’ve ever been given?

• What’s a secret you’ve never told anyone?

• What is your dream home like?

• What makes you feel super fancy?

• What’s your favorite thing in your / our house?

• What is something small that we can do daily for each other to make our lives better?

• If money were no object, what destination would you want to travel to?

• What small seemingly insignificant thing did your parents, or someone else say when you were a child that has stuck with you all this time?

• What is the best or worst thing you inherited from your parents?

• What are your top 5 rules for life?

• If you could travel to any country in the world for one month, where would you go?

• How do you think having kids will / has changed our lives and relationship?

• Do you eventually want to have children? How many children do you eventually want? Why?

• What is the nicest compliment you’ve received?

• What was your most inappropriate or embarrassing fart?

• What is the hardest life lesson you’ve had to learn?

• Do you believe in ghosts or the supernatural?

• If given a chance, will you choose someone else as your partner?

• What’s the most ambitious thing you’ve attempted?

• If it is not for physical intimacy, will we still be together?

• Do you feel we communicate openly in our relationship? If no, how can we improve it?

• What can someone do that makes them immediately unattractive to you, no matter how attractive they are physically?

• Do you believe in mindful spending?

Fun Conversation Starters For Couples

• What’s something that a lot of people are afraid of, but you aren’t?

• What is something you wish you could say to people but can’t?

• When we are apart what is it that you miss the most?

• Do you ever regret being in a relationship with me?

• What about yourself are you most proud of?

• Do you feel it is important to discuss with me before taking a decision?

• How did you fall out with some of your previously close friends?

• Which physical feature in me do you like the best?

• Given the power to rewind, what is that you will do differently in your life?

• What is your biggest mistake in life and how did you make it up?

• If you could describe yourself in two words what would it be?

• Do you think the world is improving or getting worse? Why?

• Tell me about a time you almost died.

• Did you ever have a one-night stand?

• What’s the #1 quality you look for in a partner?

• What is marriage to you?

• How well do you function under a lot of pressure?

• When are you the most “you”?

• What’s the most unethical thing you do regularly?

• What brings meaning to your life?

• What are the three qualities in you which you want your children to inherit?

• If you could instantly learn a talent or skill, what would you want to know how to do?

• What’s your relationship deal breaker?

• What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on?

• Who is emotionally closer to you? To whom do you relate?

• What is your perfect way to relax after a stressful day at work?

• What’s the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you while having sex?

• What one food would you banish from this earth if you could?

• What is your biggest flaw?

• What animal are you most afraid of?

• What is your opinion on transparency between couples?

• What is your worst fear?

• What family vacations did you take as a child?

• What’s the most ambitious thing you’ve attempted?

• Have you ever had an enemy?

• What possession do you treasure most of all?

• Who was your first love and why did you like her/him so much?

• What is the perfect place to settle down after retirement?

• If all crimes are made legal for a day, which offense are you likely to commit?

• When was the last time you cried?

Conversation Starters Couples Questions

• What was the most life-changing event you’ve ever experienced?

• What’s the worst emotional or mental anguish you’ve endured?

• What are you passionate about in life?

• What’s the most awkward social situation you’ve been in?

• What song do you want played at your funeral?

• What do you see as your role in our relationship?

• What untrue thing did you believe for an incredibly long time?

• Are you happy and content with your life?

• What’s a question you wish people would ask more often?

• If you received a salary to follow whatever passion you wanted to, what would you do?

• Who do you act nice around but secretly dislike?

• Do you have a “type,” or did you have one before we got together?

• What makes you feel better when you’re sad or stressed?

• What’s your biggest regret?

• When did you have your first kiss and how did you feel about it?

• Do you consider emotional cheating as wrong as physical cheating?

• Who is your role model in your family?

• Did you ever think of leaving me?

• How do you think your life would be if we never met?

• How realistic do you think couples in movies and TV are?

• Did you ever feel you are lucky to have me in your life?

• Do you believe in good luck and bad luck? How about things that are lucky or unlucky?

• Do you have any secrets in life that you have kept from me?

• Did you experience failure in life? If yes, how did you manage to get back on your feet?

• What’s the most peaceful/restful night of sleep you’ve had?

• Name a bad habit which you got rid of?

• When do you think is the right time to have kids?

• What is something we should enjoy more because it won’t be around for long?

• What weird thing stresses you out more than it should?

• Do you think people more people look down on you or up to you? Why?

• If you could have one amazing talent what would it be?

• Do you believe in friends with benefits?

• Do you believe that pure happiness exists? Have you ever felt it?

• What is your weakness?

• What are some of your earliest memories?

• Are you ever jealous of something about me?

• Who was your first high school crush?

• What is something you know is bad for you but you can’t seem to get away from it?

• How do you feel we are different from each other?

• Do you like flirting?

• On a scale of one to ten, how cute am I?

• What’s the scariest / creepiest place you have ever been?

• When deserted on an island what will you miss the most?

• What 3 things would you say you’re scared of now?

• What’s your ideal way to spend a vacation?

• What movie seriously scarred you as a child or as an adult?

• What irrational fears did you have as a child?

Conversation Starters For New Couples

• Do you prefer surprises (like on anniversaries) or making plans together?

• What would be a deal breaker for our relationship, something you couldn’t forgive?

• How important is it for individuals in a relationship to maintain their own separate identity?

• What’s the biggest favor you’ve done for someone?

• What is the best advice you have received to date?

• What’s the worst emotional or mental anguish you’ve endured?

• What is the nicest compliment you’ve received?

• What are you purposefully ignoring even though you know you should probably deal with it?

• Is there a couple you know that you really look up to?

• Do you consider me as your best friend?

• What does love mean to you?

• Who is the black sheep in your family?

• What’s the most rewarding thing in your daily routine?

• How would we know if we did our job as parents well?

• What do your colleagues think of you?

• What is your best childhood memory?

• What’s the most peaceful/restful night of sleep you’ve had?

• What are the best and worst things about the period of history we are living through?

• What’s the biggest opportunity you were given?

• What luxury do you enjoy treating yourself to?

• Who is the most famous person you have ever met?

• What’s the biggest financial mistake you’ve made?

• How forgiving are you?

• How does your current morning routine compare to your ideal morning routine?

• What was the most productive time in your life? How about the least productive?

• Do you think love is necessary in long-term relationships?

• What part of you as a person still needs a lot of work?

• What do you think is the ultimate “break up” song?

• When has a mundane occurrence or chance completely changed the course of your life?

• What are your future plans with me?

Funny Conversation Starters For Married Couples

• What’s your most embarrassing story about being sick?

• Do you think we are soulmates?

• Do you think cheating on your spouse is ok as long as you are not caught?

• When did you feel happy recently and why?

• What is the one thing which you would want to change in yourself?

• Do you think we must share and discuss our finances?

• When did your parents talk to you about the birds and the bees?

• What is the saddest thing about your life that nobody knows?

• When do you feel like you are really in your element?

• What are you into, but haven’t told me about?

• What is the saddest book you’ve ever read?

• Describe your perfect date with me.

• What job do you think you were born to do?

• How often do you visit your parents?

• What is being successful in life mean to you?

• What three words best describe you?

• What are the three things you cannot live without?

• What’s your favorite gift I’ve given you?

• What’s something you screwed up and then tried to hide?

• Who was the worst teacher you ever had?

• What is the correct way for toilet paper to sit on the roll?

• What toy was your absolute favorite growing up?

• What was the first album/record/CD you ever owned?

• How superstitious are you?

• What is the most adventurous thing you’ve done sexually?

• What’s the best way for someone to improve themselves?

• What can I do to most help us?

• What do you want out of life?

Love Conversation Starters For Couples

• What would the best version of you be like?

• What is something I did that you thought was exceptionally kind or thoughtful?

• What wild animal would you be most afraid to encounter?

• If there was a horrible accident and you were unconscious and on life support, how long would you want to be on life support?

• How good are you at planning finances?

• What made you feel I am the one?

• What are some of your relationship goals?

• Who is the most irritating person you know?

• Children are often very similar to their parents. How do you want to be different than your parents? And how do you want to be similar to them?

• Do you value my opinion even when it contradicts yours?

• What age would you like to live to?

• What question do you most want an answer to?

• To whom do you owe your success in life?

• How traditionally “normal” was your family?

• You’re strapped in a rocket ship about to go to the moon. Are you thrilled? Or terrified?

• When you are looking for relationship questions, it’s always important to ask about family and

• What biases do you think you have?

• What do you most like to do when you have alone time?

• What unique game of pretend did you frequently play as a child?

• What was the first thing you found attractive about me?

• What are some of the most attractive traits a person can have?

• What is way more difficult than it sounds?

• What’s your favorite childhood memory?

• On what part of your body (excluding sexual organs) do you most like to be touched?

• What are you battling that you don’t tell anyone about?

• Describe your perfect weekend.

• What is your most embarrassing moment to date?

• What do you wish for our relationship?

• What is the most romantic thing anyone has done for you?

• If there was a horrible accident and you were unconscious and on life support, how long would you

• What new hobbies or activities would you like to try together as a couple?

• What do you think is important in a relationship?

• What are some things you really like about me?

• Do you believe in an afterlife?

• How likely are you to believe in conspiracy theories?

• Are you hopeful about your future?

• When facing a problem, who is the first person you run to seeking help?

• What were the healthiest and unhealthiest periods of your life?

• What do you look forward to most in the day?

• How good are you at reading people?

Romantic Conversation Starters For Couples

• Who is it that you look up to in your life and why?

• What are kinds of things do you find repulsive?

• What are the moments when you hated me?

• What time of the day do you like the most?

• What’s our greatest strength as a couple?

• What are two of the most important events in your life?

• Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

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• What’s your fondest memory of a tree?

• What legacy do you/would you want to leave for your kids? If no kids, younger members of your family?

• Do you believe in soulmates?

• What do you think happens after death?

• What’s your most embarrassing story about being sick?

• Children are often very similar to their parents. How do you want to be different than your parents? And

• If you had just one last meal, what would you choose to eat?

• What 5 people, alive or dead, would you invite to a dinner party?

• Who would play you in a movie about your life?

• What is the most significant lesson life has taught you?

• What makes you feel appreciated in our relationship?

• If you could make one change to the world before you die, what would they be?

• Who was your favorite family member growing up?

• Is it better to trust people or not trust people? And why?

• Who do you miss the most?

• What are some words of wisdom that have stuck with you all these years?

• What stresses you out most when traveling?

• What’s the biggest betrayal you have ever experienced?

• how do you want to be similar to them?

• What scandal happened in your neighbor or town when you were growing up?

• What would you want your obituary to say?

• What do you think would bring us closer together as a couple?

• What’s better than great sex?

• What do you love most about yourself?

• Where do you want to live when we retire?

• What’s the most dangerous, thrill-seeking thing you would consider doing?

• Who is your celebrity crush?

• What’s something that a lot of people are afraid of, but you aren’t?

• What is your opinion on giving back to society?

• Do you like to do household chores?

• want to be on life support?

• What is something your parents did or used to do that really embarrassed you?

• What makes you lose faith in humanity when you think about it?

• What are your goals in life?

• Who is your support system?

• What is your best (not worst) flaw?

• Could the Earth be flat?

• What has taken up too much of your life?

• What can someone do that makes them immediately unattractive to you, no matter how attractive they

• What’s the worst parenting mistake a couple can make?

• What is the hardest life lesson you’ve had to learn?

• What is the first thing you noticed about me?

• What is the dream you had last night?

• How well do you know yourself?

• Besides orgasms, what is the best part of sex?

• What is normal now that will be considered unethical and barbaric in 100 years?

• What would you like me to do in the bedroom to spice things up a bit?

• What is your opinion on equality between partners?

• Do you believe in life-long commitment?

• What is your favorite memory of someone who isn’t in your life anymore?

• What are your hobbies and why did you choose them?

• What do you worry about?

Great Conversation Starters For Couples

• What’s the most dangerous, thrill-seeking thing you would consider doing?

• How do you think society is changing? Do you think we’ll change with it?

• childhood. Knowing where your partner came from can help you understand how they are now.

• What makes us different than other couples?

• What’s your favorite thing in your / our house?

• What is your opinion on saving money for the future?

• What’s something that we’ve never tried in bed that you would like us to try?

• What is something that you are dreading?

• What do you think your best and worst personality traits are?

• Have you ever had your heart broken?

• What could we do to make our relationship stronger?

• What’s the best way for someone to improve themselves?

• Are you happy with the career path you chose or do you wish you had chosen a different career?

• In what areas do you think our personalities complement each other? (i.e. One is too reckless, and the other is too cautious, and it balances out to a happy medium.)

• Who is the best couple among your family and why?

• How was your day, dear?

• Tell me about a mistake you made in a previous relationship, or something you regret.

• What do you wish you were better at?

• Questions about their family and childhood

• Do you believe in unconditional love?

• What’s your favorite song lyric? Why?

• What were the three most important turning points in your life?

• What is your most favorite romantic song?

• When was the time I made you laugh the most?

Best Conversation Starters For Couples

• Is there anything you did wrong for years and years, only to discover later that you were doing it wrong?

• If you could open a business what type of business would you open?

• What is the difference between romance and love for you?

• Which place is your sanctuary in this world?

• What made you realize that your parents were just human like everyone else?

• If money was no object, and with no input from me, how would you decorate your / our house?

• If you had a friend who spoke to you the same way you speak to yourself, would you keep them as a

• What celebrity do you think most resembles me? Most resembles you?

• What is something you know is bad for you but you can’t seem to get away from it?

• Are you comfortable to talk about anything with me?

• Why do you think we’ve been put here on earth? Do you think life has a purpose

• What is the worst date you’ve ever been on?

• What were the 3 happiest days of your life?

• What school subjects did you like and hate most when you were in school?

• Which quality in a woman/ man makes her/ him irresistible for you?

• Do you think you are a confident person? Why or why not?

• What do you think our life will look like in 10 years?

• What is the best part of being in a relationship? And what is the worst?

• What do you think would be the best way to strengthen our relationship?

• What is your deal breaker in a relationship?

• What’s your favorite part of my body?

• Do you wish to have kids someday?

• What are you grateful for in life?

• What are your pet peeves?

• How well do you think you would handle prison?

• Did I hurt you anytime? If yes, how can I avoid doing it?

• Name a romantic song which makes you think of me?

• What’s your favorite way we spend time together?

• How do you think we can keep each other happy for the rest of our lives?

• What are some of the telltale signs of a shallow person?

• Tell me about 3 things you were scared of as a child.

• If you could live in any era what would you choose?

• What’s the scariest story you’ve ever heard?

• What are some alcohol-induced stories of your younger days?

• What makes our relationship better than other relationships?

• How do you plan to balance work and our relationship?

• What book or film can you not imagine your life without?

• How much do you love me?

• What kind of memories do you want to make together?

• Are you ashamed of anything you did in the past? If you are comfortable talking about it, what was it?

• If you had a friend who spoke to you the same way you speak to yourself, would you keep them as a friend?

• How do you think society is changing? Do you think we’ll change with it?

• What does a happy and healthy relationship look like to you?

• How important do you think sex is in our relationship?

Conversation Starters For Long Distance Couples

• Do you think we will make good parents?

• What is that you are expecting from me?

• How important is having a romantic life for you?

• If there is something you like me to work on, what is it?

• What do I do that makes you the happiest?

• If asked to describe one best thing about our first date what would you pick?

• What’s your fondest memory of a tree?

• What do you think the most essential thing in a successful relationship is?

• What’s the worst thing that people are proud of?

• What is your biggest weakness and how did you overcome it?

• What’s the most awkward social situation you’ve been in?

• What is the meaning of family to you?

• What do you think is the biggest cause of or contributing factor towards divorce?

• What do you like most about where we live?

• Who do you want to be more like or who do you look up to most?

• What’s your ideal way to spend a vacation?

• Are you happy with the people you surround yourself with? Why or why not?

• If today is my last day on earth what would you want to do?

• What are your top 5 favorite romantic movies?

• How can we bring back the spark in our relationship?

• Where do you see us 5 years in the future? 10 years?

• What would a movie about your life be called?

• What’s the biggest financial mistake you’ve made?

• How can I be the loving person you want me to be?

Conversation Starters For Dating Couples

• What is the wildest adventure you had till now?

• What are you most sentimental about?

• What is that worked with me which did not with anyone else?

• What habits do you still have from childhood?

• How well do you think our sex drives match up?

• If given a chance, with whom would you like to go on a date?

• What questions should partners ask each other before getting married?

• What’s your favorite memory of me?

• What is the most significant change you would like to make in your life?

• When am I at my sexiest?

• Which of our marriage vows do you think is the most important? (Or if you’re not married, which marriage vow would be most important to you?)

• What’s a question you wish people would ask more often?

• What do you like in your best friend and why?

• Given a chance to get adopted by a billionaire would you still choose your parents?

• What’s the most unethical thing you do regularly?

• What’s the scariest / creepiest place you have ever been?

• When is your favorite time of day?

• Which of these would you prefer — candlelight dinner on the beach or a 6-course meal at a five-star restaurant?

• How well do you think we communicate?

• What do you think would be the most romantic place for us to travel together?

• Who was your celebrity crush as a teenager?

• What’s the best relationship advice you’ve received?

• What’s a secret you’ve never told anyone?

• What song would you absolutely NOT want to hear played during sex?

• What is the glue that keeps couples together?

• What song reminds you of me?

• Who is your childhood superhero? And why?

• Family, money, friends what is the order of priority for you?

• What would you do to keep the romance alive in our relationship?

• Do you find yourself attractive?

• Tell me about something you experienced that you have no explanation for.

• What is your biggest adventure in life to date?

• If you could change something about me, what would it be?

• What’s the craziest thing that has happened at a job you worked at?

• What small seemingly insignificant thing did your parents, or someone else say when you were a child

• What’s something you’ve done that most people wouldn’t know or guess about you?

• Do you prefer the beach or the mountains?

• What’s the craziest thing that has happened at a job you worked at?

• What was the most painful thing to hear?

• Will you compel me to do something I am not willing to do?

• What is the best way to raise children?

Conversation Starters For Engaged Couples

• Do you think you have the freedom to be yourself in our relationship?

• What small pleasures do you enjoy the most?

• What musical instrument do you wish you could play?

• Which love story would best describe our relationship?

• When was the last time you cried? What can I do to make you feel better at such times?

• What brings you the most joy?

• Do you think we have an emotional connection?

• What’s your biggest regret?

• When have you felt most loved by me?

• What’s the biggest opportunity you were given?

• What’s the most rewarding thing in your daily routine?

• What makes you feel the most loved?

• What’s one thing that you think would make our relationship better?

• What would be the best gift I could give you?

• What would your perfect life look like?

• What do I do in bed that drives you wild?

Good Conversation Starters For Teenage Couples

• What do I do that irritates you?

• What has been a recurring theme in your life?

• What is your biggest regret in life?

• What are the five things that made you who you are now?

• Do you wish to be raised differently?

• Would you take 3 million dollars if it meant that the person you hate most in the world gets 9 million?

• What is it that you like the most about me?

• What is your idea of a romantic getaway?

• What’s the most disheartening and heartening realization you have come to?

• Were you close to your parents growing up?

• Are you willing to support my career once we have kids?

• What is the most romantic movie you’ve ever seen?

• Do you feel we are spending enough time with each other?

• What is your favorite memory of us?

• What makes you dislike a person?

• Do you think it is more important for a couple with kids to focus on the kids more or each other more? Why?

• are physically?

• Do you believe in love at first sight?

• What change did you see in yourself after being in a relationship with me?

• What did you aspire to become when you were a child?

• How well do you know my dreams and aspirations?

• Would you rather have the ability to fly or the ability to be invisible?

• What calms you down the most?

• Would you rather have the power of time travel or the power to see the future?

• If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you will spend the money on?

• What petty thing that people do really gets on your nerves?

• How do you think the world came into existence?

• What’s the biggest favor you’ve done for someone?

• What adventure would you like to go on with me?

• What gives you butterflies in your stomach?

• Who was your superhero or idol growing up?

• What book or movie do you wish you could experience for the first time again?

• Tell me about your most embarrassing moment.

• How important is my career to you?

• What do you admire most about me?

• What makes you the best partner?

• When you’re gone when you want to be remembered for?

• Do you worry about our relationship? What would make you feel more secure?

• What would be the greatest gift to receive?

• What are some of the most pleasant sensations for you?

• that has stuck with you all this time?

• When did you feel respected/ disrespected by me?

• What was the hardest lesson you’ve had to learn?
• What life experiences did you miss out on?

Conversation Starters For Couples Dating

• What do you prefer to do on a Saturday night — a quiet night at home or dancing at a pub?

• What is your definition of an ideal date night?

• What do you think is the greatest television show of all time?

• What has been your biggest screw up so far?

• How often do you change your opinions or how you view the world?

• What do you take for granted?

• What is your motivation to get up and go to work each day?

• What is the best compliment you received from me?

• What’s something you screwed up and then tried to hide?

• What’s the most stressful situation you’ve been in? How did you handle it?

• What have you struggled with your entire life?

Intimate Conversation Starters For Couples

• What’s the most stressful situation you’ve been in? How did you handle it?

• What’s your preferred Monopoly playing piece?

• Are you comfortable to share your mobile/ email password with me?

• When you’re gone when you want to be remembered for?

• What friend have you not thought about in a long time?

• What is something that scares you on a daily basis?

• What is the one thing you are proud of doing?

• What do you think is the best quality in you?

• What would be your dream job?

• What creature/insect would most creep you out if you found it crawling on you?

• Would you rather win a Nobel Prize or an Academy Award?

• Has our relationship had any effect on your spirituality? Has it changed since we’ve been together?

• What is your greatest achievement?

• What is your favorite honeymoon destination?

• If you had a million dollars to give to any charity, what type of charity would you give it to?

• What is the best time of the year for you?

• Have you ever had a falling out with a friend? What happened?

• What toy played the most significant part in your childhood?

• Do you feel like you’re living your best life? If not, what could you be doing to change that? How could I help you?

• Money, power, or good looks: which would you rather have an unlimited supply of?

• If at all we are on the verge of a break-up would you try to get back?

• Name three people whom you value the most in your life?

• Did my relationship bring out the best in you?

• Tell me about your first crush.

• What do you think the hardest thing about marriage/being in a relationship is?

• Who is the hottest movie star in your opinion?

• What is your favorite memory of someone who isn’t in your life anymore?

If you start your conversations with the above Conversation Starters For Couples, I can assure you that it will last more than you expected. While your partner is answering the questions be careful of your expressions and reactions as it may confuse them. Even if the answer is not as you expected, give her a normal understandable reaction so that she/he doesn’t feel uncomfortable.